When we hear the word ‘Alpha’, we tend to think of a bully, leading by fear and dominance. This association stems from many years ago when limited research led us to believe that the Alpha wolves did just that. However, fast forward a few decades and we now understand that this is not the case, the Alpha pair lead from a position of strength, compassion, cooperation, guidance, trust, and love. The pack follow a simple set of rules, with each wolf knowing their role, all working together for the good of the pack. The safety and survival needs of the pack are at the very heart of every decision the Alpha pair make - Just like parents over their children.
In modern day life, our dogs live within our family unit, and just like a child needs a parent to guide them through life, your dog needs a modern day ‘Generation Alpha’ (‘Gen’ Alpha) to do the same. The modern day ‘Gen’ Alpha also leads from a position of strength, understanding, compassion, cooperation, guidance, trust, and love. They take time to build a meaningful relationship with their dog, making them feel safe in a world they can often find confusing and overwhelming. Instead of meeting their challenging behaviour with frustration, it is met with understanding, choosing to address the underlying issue and not just the unwanted behaviour, which is merely a symptom.
Dogs are communicating to us all the time through their behaviours, and as their guide, we must listen, understand, be patient if they are struggling to adapt, recognise their triggers, and teach them how to behave in any given situation. When your dog sees you as a ‘Gen’ Alpha, it will do everything you want it to do, but of its’ own free will, from a place of trust, love and co-operation. Now that’s a true connection.
Are you a ‘Gen’ Alpha??…..
A = Accountable – be accountable and take note of your dog’s actions (they are a reflection of you).
L = Loyal – show commitment and compassion, by taking the time to understand their fears, phobias and triggers.
P = Protect – be their protector, that pillar of strength, so they look to you in times of perceived danger.
H = Handler – help them feel connected to the world around them, by teaching them how to behaviour in any given situation.
A = Attentive – pay attention to what they are telling you; learn their language and your bond will deepen.
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